How does one justify a right or wrong??
To me there is no such thing as right or wrong, just how things are perceive by our mindset.Who have the right to justify how right or wrong things are?
No one I would say can justify your right or wrong , what right anyone have over what are perceive by you, and most importantly who have your thinking or mindset to tell you it’s right or wrong…anyway.
There is matter I would consider right maybe a wrong for some other …who cares, as long I can justify to myself that the things I do with my own reason ….
Why should I care how others will perceive me …
I don’t even want to explain to others why I m doing things how am I doing it? The most important why should I even explain it in the first place.
For those who matter, understand or have the same set of thinking or mindset will obviously understand and would not even bother to ask.
For those who don’t and keep on dwelling in their fairy tale castle have to really wake up and think hard !!
Do not throw accusations on people right or wrong based on your own perception…
Don’t make a dumbass or bitch out of yourself …
This will not help make things better or solve problem for any one, just shows how shallow can one be only.
Manipulating words and intuition of a female may have a bit of effect to me, but this will not work with me.
I have a stronger will and mind for that, it will only make me have only one emotion –pity!!
I have my own judgments of my right and wrong with my own way to justify it.
Don’t judge me based on your own fairy tales castle, who the hell are you to judge me???
20090628
Wow it’s just like Movie Scene …..
Hell Yeah…how often we encounter a situation like a movie scene…………...
Well I guess I m those lucky freaks around who have the privilege of that.
Having dinner with a close friend is so simple and natural…it doesn’t matters it’s a male of female close friend. To me it’s a normal thing to do.
As I was having a dinner with a close friend...Who happens to be a male .Everything was normal after finished with our dinner, talking or chatting seems normal. Then there was a car passes us by, my dinner mate made a remark about a little spy.
I had no idea what he was saying until he mentioned the car number; oh it’s the GF…
After about less than 10 minutes, we were thinking will she come back for a second round to see us …
Then there she was walking over to us with a hostile look in her face despite the innocent look she had.
She claimed she was hungry and wanted dinner with us; of course she doesn’t look like she wants to eat anything.More like she wanted to eat me, if she CAN...
Then the movie scene begins…..Scene 11 Take 001
She started without asking, commenting on to talk things out...Face to face.
Of course I kept quiet and both of us sort of look towards the leading male on the same table.
Then the not so lucky male have to start the bla bla bla, I feel so sad for him …caught in a sticky situation like this …we are actually on a dateline to an event.
So they began their bla bla bla, she sort of begin non-stop …were there anyone listening or giving any response she just went on and on and on all the way repeating the words again and again. Accusing me sort of being the other women….and why I send sms and being alone with him.
She have the guts to tell me, as a woman why am I doing this to her??
Well I can say I used up my hostility in the afternoon in a meeting, she is damn lucky one if not she is going to get stuff with a piece of my mind …whether she like it or not.I just kept quite as I know perfectly this was not my war …it’s his war
I could say all have gone quite well, the war sort of ended without making too much of a scene to anyone.
Gosh I feel pity for this female …if u wanted to talk at least try looking for a better location and check if the other side is listening to you and the most important thing is LISTEN to other too. Or else how the hell you can define it as Communication???
I told myself NO next time if she were to attack me in any way I will never hesitate to give her a piece of my mind…
For god sake do not come anywhere near me again…
Well I guess I m those lucky freaks around who have the privilege of that.
Having dinner with a close friend is so simple and natural…it doesn’t matters it’s a male of female close friend. To me it’s a normal thing to do.
As I was having a dinner with a close friend...Who happens to be a male .Everything was normal after finished with our dinner, talking or chatting seems normal. Then there was a car passes us by, my dinner mate made a remark about a little spy.
I had no idea what he was saying until he mentioned the car number; oh it’s the GF…
After about less than 10 minutes, we were thinking will she come back for a second round to see us …
Then there she was walking over to us with a hostile look in her face despite the innocent look she had.
She claimed she was hungry and wanted dinner with us; of course she doesn’t look like she wants to eat anything.More like she wanted to eat me, if she CAN...
Then the movie scene begins…..Scene 11 Take 001
She started without asking, commenting on to talk things out...Face to face.
Of course I kept quiet and both of us sort of look towards the leading male on the same table.
Then the not so lucky male have to start the bla bla bla, I feel so sad for him …caught in a sticky situation like this …we are actually on a dateline to an event.
So they began their bla bla bla, she sort of begin non-stop …were there anyone listening or giving any response she just went on and on and on all the way repeating the words again and again. Accusing me sort of being the other women….and why I send sms and being alone with him.
She have the guts to tell me, as a woman why am I doing this to her??
Well I can say I used up my hostility in the afternoon in a meeting, she is damn lucky one if not she is going to get stuff with a piece of my mind …whether she like it or not.I just kept quite as I know perfectly this was not my war …it’s his war
I could say all have gone quite well, the war sort of ended without making too much of a scene to anyone.
Gosh I feel pity for this female …if u wanted to talk at least try looking for a better location and check if the other side is listening to you and the most important thing is LISTEN to other too. Or else how the hell you can define it as Communication???
I told myself NO next time if she were to attack me in any way I will never hesitate to give her a piece of my mind…
For god sake do not come anywhere near me again…
20090613
“Brainwashing”
I would gladly use this term for those who like to psycho their mindset, idea or how things should be done to others.
The constant reminder and emotions blackmailing to proceed into “Brainwashing” is too many to describe, as each may use a method as it’s subjective to different perception to do it.
Depending on the level you are in ….Gosh I m starting to sound like a PS game review.
Don’t we all wish that we can do that as well, but usually we are the ones to be brainwashed most of the time.
I just experience the “Brainwashing” today.
What the heck if you want to imprint me with your brainwashing you need to do better than that …moron!! Well I m glad I m no dumb “B” with a weak mind …to be so easily manipulated by those baskets…
Times like this I really love my curse, as I m able to tell if the baskets are trying to psycho me…
Too bad for them if they can’t tell a dumb “B” to a smart “B”…really too bad for them
The cursed one will not be affected by this…only the weak willed one will submit…
The stronger your mentality you have you can easily just ignore those dumb brainwashing!!
I believe everyone has their own way or perception towards things or issue we face daily…
At least open up your eyes and heart to look into the situation before blindly perform the “brainwashing”
Sad to say I m no genius also but at least I try to judge matters or issues based on the most logical view I could.
How smart a person can be if he asks the cleaner to cook and the chef to clean??
Why not u be the judge??
The constant reminder and emotions blackmailing to proceed into “Brainwashing” is too many to describe, as each may use a method as it’s subjective to different perception to do it.
Depending on the level you are in ….Gosh I m starting to sound like a PS game review.
Don’t we all wish that we can do that as well, but usually we are the ones to be brainwashed most of the time.
I just experience the “Brainwashing” today.
What the heck if you want to imprint me with your brainwashing you need to do better than that …moron!! Well I m glad I m no dumb “B” with a weak mind …to be so easily manipulated by those baskets…
Times like this I really love my curse, as I m able to tell if the baskets are trying to psycho me…
Too bad for them if they can’t tell a dumb “B” to a smart “B”…really too bad for them
The cursed one will not be affected by this…only the weak willed one will submit…
The stronger your mentality you have you can easily just ignore those dumb brainwashing!!
I believe everyone has their own way or perception towards things or issue we face daily…
At least open up your eyes and heart to look into the situation before blindly perform the “brainwashing”
Sad to say I m no genius also but at least I try to judge matters or issues based on the most logical view I could.
How smart a person can be if he asks the cleaner to cook and the chef to clean??
Why not u be the judge??
Weakness and strength....
I m sure we all have it no matter how long or short the list will be....
This may be natural born, our upbringing...our happen with our experience...
These weaknesses may affect our life or end up making up for someone else defect in life
Can’t really justify as every case is different from the each …
For me I sort of have them combined …as my strength is also my weakness.
My need for being independent does not come …by day in fact it has been years due to the family upbringing I have, my experience in life and my personal CARE list for loved ones and family.
Things have to be done by someone, as always that person will end up being me.
I have to be strong mentality and physically at all times for the challenges life shown to me…
I suppose that’s considered strength for me …but it’s also my weakness as I don’t seem able to stop or ask for help anymore…
Whatever wall I might bang in or how many rough patches I have to walk through I just choose to do it myself…with my “Me, Myself and I” theory I created for myself a long time ago.
Of course I feel tired and there are no words to explain how I feel any more.
I guess I don’t feel so many emotions so much nowadays, I only feel pissed most of the time…
Lucky me I have the “curse”, pride , conscience and an average EQ to cover it …can’t bring myself to imagine what will I be without those.
I may end up with some sort of freaky mental sickness…..ha ha ha
What do you think about those with their strength and weakness stuck together????
This may be natural born, our upbringing...our happen with our experience...
These weaknesses may affect our life or end up making up for someone else defect in life
Can’t really justify as every case is different from the each …
For me I sort of have them combined …as my strength is also my weakness.
My need for being independent does not come …by day in fact it has been years due to the family upbringing I have, my experience in life and my personal CARE list for loved ones and family.
Things have to be done by someone, as always that person will end up being me.
I have to be strong mentality and physically at all times for the challenges life shown to me…
I suppose that’s considered strength for me …but it’s also my weakness as I don’t seem able to stop or ask for help anymore…
Whatever wall I might bang in or how many rough patches I have to walk through I just choose to do it myself…with my “Me, Myself and I” theory I created for myself a long time ago.
Of course I feel tired and there are no words to explain how I feel any more.
I guess I don’t feel so many emotions so much nowadays, I only feel pissed most of the time…
Lucky me I have the “curse”, pride , conscience and an average EQ to cover it …can’t bring myself to imagine what will I be without those.
I may end up with some sort of freaky mental sickness…..ha ha ha
What do you think about those with their strength and weakness stuck together????
20090604
Choice….
Define As :-
1. An option; a decision; an opportunity to choose or select something.
2. One selection or preference; that which is chosen or decided; the outcome of a decision.
3. Anything that can be chosen.
4. (definite: the choice): The best or most preferable part
Our choice is what our subconscious & conscious mind selected.
Whether the choice is make a realization I would say it all depends on our conscious mind and will to make it happen.
We are faced with the term “choice” daily, in almost everything whether we like it or not.
Lunch with someone you like to eat with or with a bunch of jokers, what to have for lunch or dinner is a constant choice…
In my world there is no such thing as “never a choice” to be honest …because there is always a choice ...whether you like the options or not.
Who could force you to make a choice if you wouldn’t want to make it??
If you have made a choice can you live up to it?
We may not know where the future is heading towards …but I will make a stand for it once my choice has been made, no matter how bad, how low or sucks the choice will be.
Is it called willfulness?? I don’t know honestly, I just know that I will face the consequences of my choice up front, Head ON…
Running or Dodging will not bring any solution; Face the Music …you will see a path out.Through the path to the exit there may be a bumpy road…and much unhappiness to face.Well if it is our choice then facing the choice wouldn’t be difficult right?
I have made my choice not to let my soul mate fall in …upcoming storm of EMO and depression. I will have to work harder to pull him back from the storm…
Especially dedicated to those who have the “intelligent curse”
We may not have the choice of this curse …but do you rather prefer to be the not cursed???
1. An option; a decision; an opportunity to choose or select something.
2. One selection or preference; that which is chosen or decided; the outcome of a decision.
3. Anything that can be chosen.
4. (definite: the choice): The best or most preferable part
Our choice is what our subconscious & conscious mind selected.
Whether the choice is make a realization I would say it all depends on our conscious mind and will to make it happen.
We are faced with the term “choice” daily, in almost everything whether we like it or not.
Lunch with someone you like to eat with or with a bunch of jokers, what to have for lunch or dinner is a constant choice…
In my world there is no such thing as “never a choice” to be honest …because there is always a choice ...whether you like the options or not.
Who could force you to make a choice if you wouldn’t want to make it??
If you have made a choice can you live up to it?
We may not know where the future is heading towards …but I will make a stand for it once my choice has been made, no matter how bad, how low or sucks the choice will be.
Is it called willfulness?? I don’t know honestly, I just know that I will face the consequences of my choice up front, Head ON…
Running or Dodging will not bring any solution; Face the Music …you will see a path out.Through the path to the exit there may be a bumpy road…and much unhappiness to face.Well if it is our choice then facing the choice wouldn’t be difficult right?
I have made my choice not to let my soul mate fall in …upcoming storm of EMO and depression. I will have to work harder to pull him back from the storm…
Especially dedicated to those who have the “intelligent curse”
We may not have the choice of this curse …but do you rather prefer to be the not cursed???
20090601
Sincerity ...
Defined as: The quality or state of being sincere; honesty of mind or intention; freedom from simulation, hypocrisy, disguise, or false pretense.
It doesn’t matter what you do to others or yourself, but ask yourself are you doing it sincerely from the bottom of your heart or just putting up an act out of responsibility.
To have a dinner with family and loved ones doesn’t need to be an expensive or exquisite restaurant. Just a simple home cooked meal will do just fine. It’s a matter of sincerely enjoy each other time together. Spending time together with friends or loved ones are also the same.
Would you rather have an expensive and exquisite dinner with someone whose company you don’t enjoy??
Even with my siblings, there may be different opinions and views; we may not look each other eye to eye sometimes…it happens to all.
But we know that to have a dinner with your complete family is a precious moment …the sincere happy to enjoy each other company will make us forget all our difference…and make the dinner a more memorable one.
Life is sure short, as long as your treat another person sincerely from the bottom of your heart; there are no words required. I m sure those matters will know.
Memories are what we are and make of it ……
It doesn’t matter what you do to others or yourself, but ask yourself are you doing it sincerely from the bottom of your heart or just putting up an act out of responsibility.
To have a dinner with family and loved ones doesn’t need to be an expensive or exquisite restaurant. Just a simple home cooked meal will do just fine. It’s a matter of sincerely enjoy each other time together. Spending time together with friends or loved ones are also the same.
Would you rather have an expensive and exquisite dinner with someone whose company you don’t enjoy??
Even with my siblings, there may be different opinions and views; we may not look each other eye to eye sometimes…it happens to all.
But we know that to have a dinner with your complete family is a precious moment …the sincere happy to enjoy each other company will make us forget all our difference…and make the dinner a more memorable one.
Life is sure short, as long as your treat another person sincerely from the bottom of your heart; there are no words required. I m sure those matters will know.
Memories are what we are and make of it ……
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